My parents, like all
middle class Bengali parents, believed that an extra training in fine arts was
an additional shot in the arm along with the traditional education imparted in
the school.
As a result, I was
inducted in the drawing class conducted on Sundays in the local club. It took
me 3 weeks (that’s 3 classes actually) to understand that I hated sitting in a
room staring at an object and that I could never ever have a co-ordination
between my mind, my eyes and the pencil in hand. I bunked the next class to
join the cricket coaching class being held outside. It was obvious when my
father came to collect me from the class that no amount of effort in drawing
would create a bruise in the knee and the knuckles simultaneously. In short, I
was caught red handed and we came to attend a ‘gol table boithak’ (round table
conference) with my parents.
They reasoned with me
that everyone my age had some ‘EXTRA CURRICULAR ACTIVITY’! Playing in the sun
and rolling in the mud or climbing trees was not qualified to be taken as such.
So, I had to learn something!! Playing the tabla or guitar was suggested and
harmonica was the compromise solution. Not even my otherwise doting parents
dared to suggest singing as they knew that I would probably create disharmony
in the neighbourhood through my ‘hende gola’ and lack of understanding of
‘sur’! I was gifted a harmonica and there I was trying to blow my lungs out. My
friend/brother next door played this instrument like a dream and when I heard
him play better with every passing day, the harmonica took the shortest route
to my drawer.
Well, that was the end
of my tryst with fine and performing arts!
It brought a relief to
me and my energy was shifted to my love of cricket and football. My parents
knew when to retreat and they never tried to convince me again.
However, there was a
time every year when I really regretted my inability to play the instruments or
sing or get involved in such ‘cultural activities’. Come the month of Baishak
with the ushering of the Bengali New Year and every corner of the then Bengal
would have thousands of cultural programmes commemorating the new year and the
birthdays of Rabindranath , Nazrul and Sukanto. These would be ‘para’ based and
all local ‘para’ artistes would get to showcase their skills in the stage
created in the local grounds. The rehearsals would continue for about a month
before the D-day.
This was the period of
romance.
All ‘eligible’ boys and
girls would get to meet and showcase their talents to impress the chosen one.
The hot and often humid air of April would hold an additional burden of such
budding romances and the heat wouldn’t seem so oppressive! But this was limited
to those who could perform and people like us would watch from a distance and
go green with envy. As one of those who indulged in outdoor games and lacked
the fine arts, we had the duty of volunteers. It was to keep the outside crowd
at bay on the day of the programme, or function, as we called it then. Other
jobs would be to carry heavy articles, collect chanda and other such odd
jobs! I would stop near the rehearsal
area, listen to the songs or discussions or the strains of music emanating from
behind the doors, cringe at the bonhomie between the boys and girls and curse
my inability to be a part of it. This feeling would last till the start of the
next cricket season when all such things would be drowned under the sound of
the willow hitting leather.
I would reason that
after all someone has said that cricket was the poetry of the willow!
Today, I wonder whether
such tender moments still spring in the summer under the guidance of the three
bards of Bengal! Or whether, poetry- fuelled romance has vanished like the
romance having vanished from cricket!!!
2 comments:
Thank you for a comeback and i sincerely wish that you make a come back frequently. In your profession you come across a lot of people and pls share us with these experiences. I wish let your daughter makes her choice to do whatever she wants to do, just observe now what she really likes without being influenced by others.
তুমি, তোমার বউ, মেয়ে এবং বাড়ির অনান্যরা আমাদের পক্ষ থেকে নববর্ষের শুভেচ্ছা নিয়ো ।
Thank you Pradipda for the kind words. And shuvo naba borsho to you and boudi
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